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misterdaniel ([personal profile] misterdaniel) wrote2010-01-17 11:05 pm

In Norwich

There is little to be gained by shouting at a year except, perhaps, the benefits of shouting at something. The thing is that whilst the situation in Haiti is truely catastrophic, and I am genuinely dismayed to read LJs of friends going through hard times, I always knew that 2010 was going to be a painful year.


[livejournal.com profile] sheyna received a text from her father this afternoon. In his typically direct fashion it indicated that Carla's cancer had reached the stage where her life expectancy could be measured in days. The starkest evidence of the prognosis is that the ward Carla is on was barred to visitors because of a bug they want to get under control. The only exception was for families of critically ill individuals - which, as of today, includes us.

So we are in Norwich. Kaz and her father have gone to the ward (even at 10.30pm), whilst I stay to look after Ellie who is understandably a little unsettled by the sudden upheaval.

[identity profile] plucky-lass.livejournal.com 2010-01-17 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I know there's nothing we can say to help, but I wanted you to know we're thinking of and praying for all of you. That's dreadful news

[identity profile] svartmetall.livejournal.com 2010-01-17 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Damn. If there's anything you need that I can help with, just call or text me. In the meantime, my thoughts are with all of you.

[identity profile] endis-ni.livejournal.com 2010-01-17 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh no. Please accept my prayers and thoughts for all the family.

[identity profile] larpexiles.livejournal.com 2010-01-17 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Just hugs and love

-D and I

[identity profile] castorlion.livejournal.com 2010-01-17 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, how horrible for all of you. For what it's worth, my thoughts are with you.

[identity profile] pax-draconis.livejournal.com 2010-01-17 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Gods. Thoughts are with you and of course, if there's anything we can do you have but to ask.

[identity profile] rachelprince.livejournal.com 2010-01-17 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs* My prayers and thoughts are with you all

[identity profile] rebby.livejournal.com 2010-01-17 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Big hugs to all at this time.

Thinking of you and yours.

[identity profile] harrytc.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
You know you can always drop by and see us if a moment out would help.

[identity profile] blackcurrants.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so terribly, terribly sorry for you all.

[identity profile] forest-rose.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry, love. I'm sure you're surrounded by much more medically qualified people than me, but my phone is on night and day and you are very welcome to call with any questions or just for a supportive chat xxx

[identity profile] mfl.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 07:15 am (UTC)(link)
thoughts are with you

[identity profile] nicky-cky.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 08:04 am (UTC)(link)
Adding our thoughts, hugs and sympathy. x

[identity profile] eviladara.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 08:05 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs*

If you need anything when you're back, let me know.

[identity profile] microgirl.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 08:06 am (UTC)(link)
That's horrible news, I'm so sorry for all of you. I've been naively thinking no news was good news (never mind the fact that I tend to naively think everyone gets better). Do please pass on my love and prayers.

[identity profile] sarahfeeney.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 08:26 am (UTC)(link)
Thinking of you all, I know especially with a small child this is one of the hardest things to cope with. You want to offer full support for your partner whilst trying to maintain a tiny bit of routine for the small person who has no idea why things are wrong and different.

I'll say a prayer for all of you. My love to Kaz and all of you.

[identity profile] wulfboy.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 08:36 am (UTC)(link)
Nothing is going to make the situation better, but my thoughts such as they are are with you and your family this morning.

[identity profile] tatty-tigermoth.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 08:54 am (UTC)(link)
We're thinking of you all right now, so much. When or if you need us we're always available.

Much love.

[identity profile] areteus.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 09:21 am (UTC)(link)
Thinking of you in this difficult time.

[identity profile] delvy.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 09:25 am (UTC)(link)
Thoughts and prayers with you all. If you need some support I am a short drive away and happy to pop up to Norwich for a coffee or whatever.

[identity profile] badgersandjam.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 09:58 am (UTC)(link)
Thoughts are with you. So sorry to hear this.

[identity profile] raselhague.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 11:35 am (UTC)(link)
Thinking of you all.x

[identity profile] poppymayhem.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 11:43 am (UTC)(link)
So sorry to hear that, my thoughts are with you all as well, xxx

[identity profile] vicksteroo.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 01:14 pm (UTC)(link)
My love to all of you, and to Carla too (she may not remember me, but I will always have fond memories of her, especially at Llangollen YHA many years ago). I'm sure you'll all cherish the chance to spend this time together.

[identity profile] krieglust.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 02:38 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs* - our thoughts, love and prayers are with you

[identity profile] huuggs.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 02:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Our love and thoughts are with youand the whole family. Anything we can do just shout we are here

[identity profile] wyzziwig.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 07:14 pm (UTC)(link)
That's terrible news. Thinking of you.

[identity profile] sin-and-sparkle.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 07:38 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry to hear this. Shit..
Will be thinking of you all.

[identity profile] slappersire.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 07:42 pm (UTC)(link)
That's awful. Mine and J's thoughts and support are with you all.

[identity profile] littlemiscowboy.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 07:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Our prayers and thoughts are with you three and your family.
Hugz

[identity profile] d511kx.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 09:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Thinking of you all. You know where I am if you need anything.

[identity profile] golden-exism.livejournal.com 2010-01-18 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
I will add my contribution to the plethora of thoughts and care aimed at you guys.
If there is anything I can possibly do to help (I know there is very little in this situation), you know I am only a phone call away.
You have always helped me so much in my times of need; I cannot think of anyone less deserving of this.
Give my love to Kaz and Ellie.
xxx

[identity profile] clairegebert.livejournal.com 2010-01-20 07:19 pm (UTC)(link)
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. My love to you all.